they mentioned Kame, Yamapi & Fukuyama went out again this year ..
Kame talked about the topic on “I’m not well-liked by girls”
because he is those type of guys that instead of listening
& agreeing with girls when girls are talking to him,
he will add in a lot of comments like, “No no you’re in wrong here”
& this is what girls dislike.
Kame just can’t simply listen quietly & nod his head while listening ..
So he thinks he is not well-liked by girls .. [from here]
Kame and I have something else in common, I see. I’d rarely use ‘you’re wrong’ actually facing another person though. lol. I stopped talking to guys that talk out of their ass a long time ago, thought it would help (hahaha). I thought this was only a girl’s problem. Miracles haven’t left this world I see.
There’s a significant difference between intelligent discussion and people that just want to feel better than you. Guys that I’ve dated or considered dating had a clean record of wanting to feel better than me. You know how that works? They do one of three things:
1. “I don’t know about such stuff (in that tone).” Freely translated it’s “Don’t go too intelligent”.
2. When noticing my argument holds up, they actually get offended *_* wtf. Wasn’t even about something personal. It ends with “Because I’ve seen it and you didn’t. Because YOU this YOU that (add random number of degrading comments that just made it personal).”
3. When 1 and 2 doesn’t work because you’re in company, they might be inclined to give a little and then publically humiliate you, shrugging it off as a joke. You know it isn’t a joke when the rest of the people at that table are painfully aware what just happened.
So girls and Kame’s of this world, if it’s one of the three kick them to the curb because they’re trash. I actually have a zero tolerance policy now. Last guy I gained as a friend landed on his ass because he did number 3. These reactions come from feeling inferior or powerless. Perhaps we should stop picking them that weak, hey? Perhaps that sounds really harsh, but for me it’s the only way. I deal with one of the most hostile environments you can be in every day. I actually manage other people’s (covert) hostility while actually envoking some more myself because I simply have that face. After I go home, that’s when it ends.